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Note to reader: <3

Writer can't spell

hey

as you know my name is Becka, I just want to say hi and I want to talk to you but I never have time so maybe just write me! yeah, that's an idea! so I am 16-years old and attend ******** High School. Im serious about my school work but im a very fun person. I like to draw, act (drama)/write poetry + read poetry. I am somewhat of a baba christian but Im more + developing. My faith means everything to me. Im an original and I have my own thing going on! If you would like to respond feel free I see you every morning. So I can get it as easy as I gave this to you!

Thanx for your time.

XOXO

<3 always

^ Becka

|

dont take it literally

b/c I write it for every one

but I <3 you +

everyone else a different way.

p.s.

If you would like to call me my # is ***-****

THAT would be a perfumed note with carefully drawn hearts in the margin that was handed to me by this girl I walk by every morning as I leave the subway with my friends on our way to school. I opened a door for her... let her by... polite things like that. But I do that for everyone. Apparently she got some signals and started smilingy so I smiled back and then she waved and I waved back and then she stopped me and asked my name and gave me her's and then finally.... today she stopped me and gave me this note.

I have no idea what to do. I have no interest in her at all. Not romantically or platonically, but I don't want to be mean in response, as I've had someone I loved totally, utterly ignore me and it ain't fun.

Any suggestions? :mellow:

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Well young man. This is a very touchy situation that you're in. Yup. You already know how it feels when someone blows you off & you don't want her to feel the same way.

I'll get back to you with some advice. I have to take care of some CAD drawings right now! ( 'o')!!!

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If you're gonna write a letter...

Dear Becka;

Thank you for the wonderful letter. I really appreciate that you see me this way. However, at this point in my life, I’m not looking to form a relationship with anyone. I have too many other things going on & trying to pursue a relationship on top of that will only make it harder. (You can go about explaining your school, work, activities, etc.) I’m hoping that you understand my situation & I hope that you don’t feel bad reading this. However, feel free to talk to me when you see me. (This is an optional note. That’s if you actually want to talk to her.)

Sincerely,

FaultyClockwork

OR

Dear Becka;

Thanks for the letter. What I’m getting from your letter is that you seem to be interested in going farther than friendship. At this point in my life, I can’t do anything other than friendship. I’m not ready to take that kind of responsibility yet. I hope that this doesn't make you feel bad. However, feel free to talk to me. I always enjoy meeting new people. (That's if you actually want to get to know her.)

Sincerely,

FaultyClockwork

OR

Yo Becka;

Yo bitch! What up? I see that you wanna slap some skinz, LOLZERS. Yeah baby. Let’s get the humpty dance going. You’re place or my place? I’ll make you feel like a natural porn star!

Yeah baby, YEAH!

FaultyClockwork

OK. That last one is a joke, but you get the general idea. You have to tell her that you're not intersted, but at the same time save face. It's kinda hard to do. I've done it a few times in that past. You can tell her this in person as well. You're going to have to reword it a bit to suit your need.

Good luck! ( ^_^)/

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Yo Becka;

Yo bitch! What up? I see that you wanna slap some skinz, LOLZERS. Yeah baby. Let’s get the humpty dance going. You’re place or my place? I’ll make you feel like a natural porn star!

Yeah baby, YEAH!

FaultyClockwork

/gasp

Dammit Gee! You're a genius!

Thanks for the advice. Those work a lot better than my initial plan of pretending I'm a foreign exchange student who has an arranged marriage waiting for him at home in Sweden.

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My friend Laura always goes on about how it is better to keep many friends than make "resentful enemies." Bleh. I don't want to be her friend even though. Does that make me some form of cold hearted bastard? :dry:

Not really. There are some people in life that you don't really want to get to know. It's not your fault. That's the way things work out in life. You can't help it, you know? ( ^o^)

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Hmm. If I only walk past her it isn't burning a bridge or anything. I just imagine her spending all this time on that note then getting declined... chance she is sad I don't want anything to do with her and I'd have to walk by her each morning. X_X

And the Gee is wise and has amazing smile faces. \(*o*)/

That's the way it is. We all have to learn how to deal with rejection. Yup. It happens to everyone sooner or later. Sometimes harsh & sometimes easy. It's a fact of life. Not everyone will want to be friends or get to know everyone. It just takes too much damn time trying to meet people. Then there are those people that you just want to fuck & that's pretty much it. Booty calls, you know? Hahaha! I mean, you don't have to diss her or anything & maybe say hi & stuff, but keep it at that. It's like this, that note is really wierd. I mean, how can she say that she loves you if she doesn't even know you? Hahaha! Yup. So yeah. Don't feel bad. She's going to have to deal with it.

1, 2, 3! \(^o^\)

I got the smilies!

4, 5, 6! (/^o^)/

B. I. G.!

Whoa smilies! \(^_^ )/

*Lots of clapping is heard.* ( ^o^) <3

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Gee I swear this is why you need me as your assistant helper because you forgot the most important letter he could write.

Dear Becka

I am Gay.

FaultyClockwork

Also she said Christian doesn't mean you can't hit that unless it is like catholic then you would have some hard work hitting that but when you do ohhh yeahhhh.

And now two quotes from different movies to make my point more meanful.

Boyz N The Hood

Tre: Catholic girls are meant to be the biggest hoochies.

Stand By Me

Ace: She's a Catholic, Man. There'll all like that. If you wanna get laid, you gotta get yourself a Protestant. A Jew's good.

Although i all seriousness just be honest and tell her you're not really looking for a relationship or that you just don't see her that way.

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Dear Becka

I am Gay.

FaultyClockwork

After the "Swedish person with an arranged marriage waiting at home" one that was my second idea.

Basically I handed her a note saying something like,

"Dear Becka,

Thank you, I appreciate the not. The reach out was very nice but I've been very busy and tend to keep to myself though. Thanks again and you're very good at drawing hearts. I appreciate it.

-Me"

Cheesy freaking excuse yeah, but when you have two subway stops to write a note you have to come up with something quick. She and her friend gave out that inhuman shriek that girls release upon something good happening and I felt so bad I ran away and my friends were lol'ing like mad.

I'm afraid for my life now. I keep asking people how Fatal Attraction ends. My friend Laura on the subject:

"Don't spurn random strangers. Have you ever seen Fatal Attraction?"

She's from one of the high schools where every once in a while someone brings a knife to school and gets in a fight. @_@

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After the "Swedish person with an arranged marriage waiting at home" one that was my second idea.

Basically I handed her a note saying something like,

"Dear Becka,

Thank you, I appreciate the not. The reach out was very nice but I've been very busy and tend to keep to myself though. Thanks again and you're very good at drawing hearts. I appreciate it.

-Me"

Cheesy freaking excuse yeah, but when you have two subway stops to write a note you have to come up with something quick. She and her friend gave out that inhuman shriek that girls release upon something good happening and I felt so bad I ran away and my friends were lol'ing like mad.

I'm afraid for my life now. I keep asking people how Fatal Attraction ends. My friend Laura on the subject:

"Don't spurn random strangers. Have you ever seen Fatal Attraction?"

She's from one of the high schools where every once in a while someone brings a knife to school and gets in a fight. @_@

Hahahaha!! Dude! That was awesome! (^o^ ) <3

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