HELP!

[DreamerGirl]

Ok, so in case some of you didn't notice I put up a topic similar to this about this one guy over the summer? (I think.) Well, to put it bluntly I deleted phone numbers, and ended all contact with him and his girlfriend.

.... And now they are back. I think it's been like 3 months of me having NOTHING to do with them, and they track me down via email asking me to hang out. They also show up at my work. I mean, if it was actually just a guy rather than a couple I'd have a freaking restraining order by now.

So, besides joining witness protection program how do I politely get them to realize that I'm not interested in being around them anymore? I mean, I stopped calling and returning calls, I deleted them from MySpace (silly but I did it. XD ) I even stopped going to the ONLY grocery store in town because they worked there!

Actually, that restraining order is starting to look better and better.....

So, the main purpose of this thread is for someone to tell me how to make them like me less. Much much less.

[Natsu]

Hate to be blunt but 2 words...

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FUCK OFF

or be a little poilte and tell them to leave ya be..and walk away.

[Natsu]

or jus go with that restraining order, but thats kinda extreme.

[Galkar]

So, the main purpose of this thread is for someone to tell me how to make them like me less. Much much less.

Spit on them. Constantly.

[Ceraziefish]

Step 1: Get a fucking huge claymore.

Step 2: Remove all clothes.

Step 3: Paint body with arcane symbols of the forest.

Step 4: Spike hair up with blue cement.

Step 5: I think you can see where this is leading.

In all seriousness, I'd just say "I don't want to talk to you or interact with you at all," or something like that. I kinda did that with my ex (although I don't feel so negative about her anymore); and the best part is, it doesn't matter if you wimp out and use email, or something like that, because it's easier to say like that and it doesn't matter if they like you or not, because they'll be out of your life.

[Belial]

When calling it quits with my ex I follow three simple steps...

1. Explain to her that we're different people going in different directions, it was not meant to be.

2. Leave her apartment, guitar in hand.

3. Duck and cover to avoid flying 40oz. that that crazy bitch is throwing at me.

Works every time.

[Ceraziefish]

When calling it quits with my ex I follow three simple steps...

1. Explain to her that we're different people going in different directions, it was not meant to be.

2. Leave her apartment, guitar in hand.

3. Duck and cover to avoid flying 40oz. that that crazy bitch is throwing at me.

Works every time.

I hate to derail the thread, but is this with different exes or the same ex different times?

[Belial]

I hate to derail the thread, but is this with different exes or the same ex different times?

Probably the same ex the same time, I just love the story and plan on hosting a yearly reenactment.

[Ceraziefish]

Probably the same ex the same time, I just love the story and plan on hosting a yearly reenactment.

:hardgay:

[Satan]

you've tried the subtle way, so I'd say move on to the blunt "I don't want to do stuff with you. I want you to GO AWAY." If talking fails completely, go to the restraining order. I don't know if you have grounds for one or not, but after expressly telling them to go away, if they still follow you, you probably will.

[Ceraziefish]

This is my backup plan if everything gets TOO bananas; move to Siberia.

[Poophy]

If you make it clear to them what your intentions are, then they will likely accept that and that will be the end of it…

But truly it seems like that are trying to reconcile your past problems, are you sure that you’re not?

[FaultyClockwork]

Probably the same ex the same time, I just love the story and plan on hosting a yearly reenactment.

When you told me about that I almost fell off my chair laughing.

And yeah, just tell them to leave you alone.

[Siendra]

As usual, I offer my services free of any charge, fee, or obligation to deal with the offending parties whenever you deem most convenient. Should you wish to specify a means of disposal, you will need to provided the required utensils.

These services are given freely and no payment or compensation is required. However, kinky sex rewards are highly encouraged.

[winterlong]

You don't need to make them dislike you, I believe that that would enhance the situation.

Do you have a brother? I would suggest borrowing a pair of testicles for the day.

[Alundra]

Like everyone else in my life that has encountered this, I don't get why this subject is so hard to handle.

If you don't want them in your life, why does it matter if you hurt their feelings by telling them to go away? Is your conscience going to get to you? No, it's not; it may bug you for a few days, but the feeling will go away and you will be able to live your life the same way you were when they weren't there.

I have had people try and come back into my life after ditching me, and I do the same thing every time when I open the door, "Why the fuck are you here?".

[Siendra]

Why won't anybody take my way out? For god's sake, it's free. And if you don't specify a means or a method, their bodies just end up floating in a fountain in bangkok.

[DreamerGirl]

^LoL

I usually have no problem telling people to go to hell.

I think I need to get over my own guilt. Really quick. @.@

[Ceraziefish]

^LoL

I usually have no problem telling people to go to hell.

I think I need to get over my own guilt. Really quick. @.@

Me too, unless they're bothering someone else and not me.

It's weird... If someone's fucking with me I just kind of ignore it, but if they're fucking with one of my friends I yell at them about it and give them the usual "fuck off, you cunt," treatment.

[The Lone Magician]

This is my backup plan if everything gets TOO bananas; move to Sealand.

Fixed

[margot]

hmm I don't know if you're still having a problem with this or whatever, but even if they come up to you and start talking, you can just ignore them or give them short, cut responses. They won't want to hang out with you if you're no fun for them.

[ROCKSTEADY]

just creep them the fuck out, tell them how your this big nazi pedophile that eats jews and stomps kittens. ACT TOTALY SERIOUS, this is imperative. After that they'll start to leave you alone, i've done it before, and it WORKS!

[DreamerGirl]

just creep them the fuck out, tell them how your this big nazi pedophile that eats jews and stomps kittens. ACT TOTALY SERIOUS, this is imperative. After that they'll start to leave you alone, i've done it before, and it WORKS!

.... My mom is Jewish.

[Ceraziefish]

.... My mom is Jewish.

Well then they come around your house, tell your mom to hide in your room and when they get in there, be chewing on some "mystery meat," and offer them some.

"It's an old family recipe..." GET IT? LIKE A RECIPE INVOLVING OLD MEMBERS OF THE FAMILY?!