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Crazy 14 yearold stalker girl


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So here's the story. There's this girl who's a freshman at my highschool. she added me on myspace, and she constantly sends me all these messages, so i was nice and replied to some of them. Then she starts writing me these notes constantly about how "Cool and artistic" i am and how she thinks about me all the time. I figure "hey, the girl has a crush on me, she'll get over it."

I have a art class that only has me in it, im kinda close with my art teacher so i just sit and paint and we talk and stuff, most of the staff and students don't know i have this class, its pretty seceretive. Some how this girl found out about my class and said she had to talk to my instructor for a while, i thought it was kind of weird but i didn't say anything. My instructor and this go into her office and shut the door. They're in their for 40 minutes until school lets out. I went up to my teacher and said "what was that all about" just matter of factly. She says "nothing we were just talking". Then i brought up the fact that the girl has this uber crush on me. All of a sudden my art teachers eyes light up and she winks at me and says "you never told me you had a girlfriend". "I don't" i said. Then she continues to tell me that the girl went on and on about how we're so in love and i write her all these letters and give these presents and shit but that i never talk to her in person. When i heard this i started being suspicious.

"I've never done any of that," i told my teacher "i hardly know her." My teachers face turned and i could tell that she thought it was weird too. then my instructor went on to tell me that the girl was asking where i lived and how she should approach me. I went home and it bugged me all night, i thought it was really weird.

The next day my art instructor comes up to me and brings me in her office and shuts the door behind me. "i need to tell you something" she said. "I talked to the counseler and this girl has some problems". "what kind of problems?" i asked. "Let's just say mrs. J (the counselor) won't be in the same room with her alone." Right then i start freaking out in my head, "Can you be more specific?". She replied "I legally can't tell you..". "DANGEROUS?" i asked, and all she did was give me this look that meant "FUCK YES". "Just, stay away from her, don't answer her messages or talk to her", she said.

What the fuck do i do about this?

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these are some messages conversations. Read from bottom to top.

collin-

oh collin, that'd be soo cool to call you, my number is ***-****. i think you're an amazing guy, and people just dont take the time to realize it. i dont want to seem like a bitch, or you can call me strong willed or whatever, but lucas doesnt control me. not me or the people i tlak to, and as much as he'd like to, he never will. the whole greenday thing, that was a phase, done with it. im onto flyleak and anti flag. i've heard some of your music from tim, he advises me to borrow your music for help cause he doesnt like my music. look, ill be straig forward, i like you. i want to hang out with you, and lucas cant control that. i get drunk sometimes too and i hope to party with you guys soon, what are you doing this next upcoming weekend? i got friends comin up, and a party sounds good. well look, just email me your number, thanks for thinkin im a dope person, at laest someone kinda understands me,

take care and peace!

veronica

whenever, im pretty drunk right now you can call me whenever, if i had my phoine right now, i could give you the number.

so i want to talk to you in school, and i know i say you're a nice guy. but i actually get scared to talk to you in school, one i dont know, and 2 because im not getting along with lucas right now, so maybe after school sometime? or when lucas isnt around? ill catch ya around....

i don't know, like twice a week

so how often do u talk to tim?

____________________________________________________

She refers to shit i never even said!

Flyleak anti-flag, not only is she fucking insane, but she listens to shitty music.

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aw poor girl she seems really messed up. i wish i was her mom or something and i could have made her not insane.

it's definitely best not to talk to her though and take her from your myspace or whatever if possible, see dreamergirl's thread on booting people from your life

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I'm confused as to why your art teacher would blatantly give out personal information about one of her students to another.

As Amy said, if you have her as a friend on Myspace, take her off and try to sever all contact with her for now. If this girl is so mentally unstable and dangerous that the counselor refuses to be alone with her, the school, or her parents will probably send her to place where she can get some help.

..hopefully.

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Okay...

I had a stalker. A real life stalker. I've mentioned it in passing - jokingly, but it was a serious problem.

I also was a youth councilor for awhile.

My advice is as follows: Keep speaking to her, but keep it short. Keep replying to her messages, but keep them direct. Make her generally assume that yes, you like her, but only in a distant friend sort of way. If she's as unstable as it sounds, severing contact cold turkey is going to get you or someone near you hurt. Badly hurt.

If she becomes more unstable or more attached to you, inform your school administration, and request that a proper psychiatric evaluation be done. I don't know how it works where you live, but in instances where a student with known problems poses a threat to other students, if those other students request the evaluation, it HAS to be performed or she has to change schools.

The findings of the evaluation will set everything else straight.

WHATEVER YOU DO, DO NOT BREAK CONTACT WITH HER RIGHT AWAY. I'm serious. She will either hurt you, someone close to you, or herself. And this won't be a simple nudge or trip or something.

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What the fuck do i do about this?
Put your cock in her mouth & just before you blow your load, pull out & splash it all over her face & tell her that she looks like a whore! ( ^o^) <3

Hahaha! Actually, there isn't much that you can do, other than ignoring her completely. I MEAN COMPLETELY. Even if she's around & tries to talk to you, don't acknowledge her at all. Yes. I mean, just act like there is nothing there. You might also want to tell your teachers & friends to not give her any of your personal info too.

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damn dude, i KNEW you were a stud :wink:

my advice: learn more about her, use this knowledge to make art. i'm not even joking man, just do all the safety stuff people said here but use your experience to your advantage.

it's what we DO

PS if you're in a special art class you're required to start posting more art. i only took one art class in high school and didn't take any in college until my second year :laugh:

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That's pretty scary.

Still... Uh... If she's only 14 I guess you could take her in a fight? You do look a lot like Varg, after all.

I mean, I've had people I didn't like have crushes on me before but this sounds totally different.

I'd also try to find out more... I dunno, that's just me though, and wouldn't really serve any purpose.

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Okay...

I had a stalker. A real life stalker. I've mentioned it in passing - jokingly, but it was a serious problem.

I also was a youth councilor for awhile.

My advice is as follows: Keep speaking to her, but keep it short. Keep replying to her messages, but keep them direct. Make her generally assume that yes, you like her, but only in a distant friend sort of way. If she's as unstable as it sounds, severing contact cold turkey is going to get you or someone near you hurt. Badly hurt.

If she becomes more unstable or more attached to you, inform your school administration, and request that a proper psychiatric evaluation be done. I don't know how it works where you live, but in instances where a student with known problems poses a threat to other students, if those other students request the evaluation, it HAS to be performed or she has to change schools.

The findings of the evaluation will set everything else straight.

WHATEVER YOU DO, DO NOT BREAK CONTACT WITH HER RIGHT AWAY. I'm serious. She will either hurt you, someone close to you, or herself. And this won't be a simple nudge or trip or something.

To me this makes the most sense so far. stalkers just get WAY angry if you suddenly act like they don't exist. DO WHAT THIS GUY SAYS!!!!!!!....... plz?

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Just lie to the bitch, she doesn't know you. Tell her you just got out of a long distant relationship and that you aren't looking to start one up. Also tell her that she reminds you TOO much of your old girlfriend and that it makes you feel uncomfortable to feel that way about her. Say things like "we can still be friends" and then just let the "friendship" break away in like a week. W/e hope the crazy bitch stops.

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Ignoring her gradually is probably the best idea. First tell everyone you're sick of myspace and then delete yours and create a new one and don't let her know about it. Then talk to her like you normally do, except start cutting it shorter and shorter somhow.. ect.

I had the same problem a few years ago with a girl my age (except she just wanted to be like my best friend). If you try to just cut her out of your life immediatley she'll probably hold on really tight out of desperation and not want to let go, so don't do that.

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