The Jock Nerd Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 At my work I have a huge crush on one of the girls I work with. Now I would have confessed my feelings by now but she already has a boyfriend (who btw is very over-protective). So now I'm stuck and can't do anything, and its making me really depressed. And I don't know why I can't just let it go. Link to comment
Nega-Brent Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 I suppose. Mary, listen to Foldered, he speaks the truth. If you can't get over a crush on a spoken for woman then you are just inviting a world of hurt my non-friend. In fact, Disney might as well create a new theme park just for you called, "The World of Hurt." Link to comment
Belial Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 Wise man once said, "Don't shit where you eat." Never date co-workers, though one-night-stands are acceptable. Link to comment
Nega-Brent Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 Never date co-workers, good friends, friends of friends, bosses, your dentist, cousins, or psycho emo chicks. Link to comment
Battle_Pope Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 the psycho emo chicks alone pretty much dominate society, so we're looking at a 2-5% slice of date-able pie. Link to comment
Nega-Brent Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 the psycho emo chicks alone pretty much dominate society, so we're looking at a 2-5% slice of date-able pie. That seems about right. Link to comment
ROCKSTEADY Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 ... or psycho emo chicks. Sooooo true. Link to comment
Silver Cyclone Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 Okay let me say this. I honestly don;t see how someone can get upset over a girl, I mean granted if you were going out for a logn time and there was a bad break up yeah. But getting depressed over a crush. Just forget about her and find yourself someone else if anythign just be friends. Link to comment
Alundra Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 Let it go. Let it go. Let it go. Let me give you a Foldered list as well: 1. The relationship will only make work a strain because you will constantly be around other people that will get in the way; and if it's any case like [a past relationship of] mine, other female co-workers will do their best to break you up. People get jealous for no reason, myself, I am happy for people who have happiness, but for some, they want nothing more than to see you in the same situation that they are in. Take it from me, I managed to get my ex-girlfriend fired along with a long time techinician and manager because we were going out. 2. You will find it harder to make unbiased work-related decisions, if you happen to have any type of superiority over her, you will find yourself under fire from co-woorkers who will accuse you of favoritism and the like even if you have done nothing of the sort. 3. When her boyfriend finds out, he will show up at work ALOT, he will try and make you feel uncomfortable, and basically turn a bad day into a horrible one. THe last thing you really need in a professional environment is a sophomoric catalyst. Overprotective boyfriends are some of the worst types to deal with; my girlfriends ex-boyfriend (who is a complete psycho, besides being overprotective) has apparently been having people watch me and report to him, while also trying to show up in places we are at to try and get her back, it get pretty annoying and stressful after awhile. 4. If you guys end up going out and at goes awry, what do you think will happen next? Work will become difficult, and if she finds someone else and makes it clear to you, jealousy will rear it's ugly head no matter how confident you think you are. Link to comment
Belial Posted January 8, 2007 Share Posted January 8, 2007 We're all pretty smart, or at least, the people that have posted in this thread thus far are, so trust us. Wait, even me? :blush: Link to comment
amy Posted January 8, 2007 Share Posted January 8, 2007 I'd like to throw in a token female "Awwww.....too bad she's taken....good luck finding the girl of your dreams! ^___^" Link to comment
Battle_Pope Posted January 8, 2007 Share Posted January 8, 2007 token throwing: FORBIDDEN!!! Link to comment
DreamerGirl Posted January 8, 2007 Share Posted January 8, 2007 Either let it go or wait it out. Don't try to break them up or stand in the way though. That just makes you look like an @ss to all people involved. So, she must have the boyfriend who visits her at work all the time? I'm always trying to figure out if this guy I work with has a girlfriend.... (I'm just curious I swear!) Link to comment
Anime Gee Posted January 8, 2007 Share Posted January 8, 2007 Coworkers are a BAD IDEA. Especially one with a boyfriend. ('o' ) !! Link to comment
Baltar Posted January 8, 2007 Share Posted January 8, 2007 Dating Co-workers = Teh Sux! Personal experience, while it seems ok at first once the shit hits the fan, you are now safe nowhere! Link to comment
Silver Cyclone Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 Either let it go or wait it out. Don't try to break them up or stand in the way though. That just makes you look like an @ss to all people involved. I resent this remark. Link to comment
Samurai Drifter Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 ... At least two of the other girls at work like or liked you but not the one you really want... The previously given advice seems like a good idea... Link to comment
margot Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Avoid her as much as possible. That's the only way to get rid of a big crush I think. =( And plus she'll probably just think you're really creepy and start to hate you, since you'll be all awkward. Link to comment
Harrison Ford Posted January 12, 2007 Share Posted January 12, 2007 Never ever date a co-worker. I've done it 3 times and wow... Yeah, it doesn't work. El one nighter FTW, because its a mutual agreement that both of you want to have amazingly guilt-free sex. But then you may not be able to hold your feelings back. I recommend watching some TV which having sex just to keep your mind busy. Also, girlfriends, sex, and relationships are way overrated. It's like waiting for something for a long time then it dissapoints. In my experience I've enjoyed hanging out with my friends way more than the 3 things I mentioned so... That's just me tho. Link to comment
Alundra Posted January 12, 2007 Share Posted January 12, 2007 I don't know about Kitoshi here, but in my opinion, sex is great with someone you actually have a connection with, it makes it that much better. Link to comment
FaultyClockwork Posted January 12, 2007 Share Posted January 12, 2007 @ss Who the Hell censors the word "ass?" Link to comment
FaultyClockwork Posted January 12, 2007 Share Posted January 12, 2007 @ss Who the Hell censors the word "ass?" Link to comment
Silver Cyclone Posted January 12, 2007 Share Posted January 12, 2007 What kind of twat double posts? Link to comment
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