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I hate my cousin w/ a burning passion

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Ok, so this all started couple months ago when my grandparents were asked to host my cousin Lauren for a couple weeks/month or so cause her mom was in jail (no surprise there.)

Over the course of time, my grandfather was always disobeyed, Lauren always asked for things, doing anything to just make him angry or depressed. He took her in as a nice favor and got treated like dirt. Rediculous.

Ok, so she leaves a couple weeks ago to Florida with some friends or..something, I didn't care nor follow. Anyway, my grandfather is pretty depressed at this point, but nothing SERIOUS. Right as he starts to get better and able to eat well and sleep well again, she calls one tuesday. She is wanting her car back and calls day after day and from what my grandmother told me, he just took the phone away from his ear and sat there. He had to go to the ER once because of depression, and his stomach was upset all the time. That douchebag kept calling and calling and now he's even more depressed. A couple minutes ago, I am over my grandparent's house, and my grandfather tells me he has trouble breathing, my grandmom wants to take him to ER, so here I am back at home.

Basically, I hate my cousin. All of her siblings and parents have been sleezy fags and gross. I'm tired of it, I wanna buy a baseball bat and play kill the slut over and over again. :P :headbang:

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Man, fuck that. (don't call her a slut or kill her or anything, that won't help)

That's pretty fucked, though. This is definitely a case where the phrase "respect your elders" is applicable.

Has anyone talked to her about this? Like, seriously? Have your grandparents, or maybe your parents, or both, talked with this girl?

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Man, fuck that. (don't call her a slut or kill her or anything, that won't help)

That's pretty fucked, though. This is definitely a case where the phrase "respect your elders" is applicable.

Has anyone talked to her about this? Like, seriously? Have your grandparents, or maybe your parents, or both, talked with this girl?

Well I'm pretty sure talking to her is what gets my grandfather more depressed because she makes him ill and stuff all the time.

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Nothing will change, everything that happens is destined to. Just let it be and try not to bother yourself with it.

Idiotic, plain idiotic view right there.

If your family needs you, or you have the power to change things, you should use that ability to it's fullest so that the innocent can regain what happiness they retained before this parasite came to live with them.

Saying that you should just let your family go deeper into depression even though you can possibly do something about it makes you sound like a selfish, self-absorbed piece of shit.

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I'd fucking cuss her out hardcore.

Tell her what a bitch she is being and the affect it is having on your grandfather

Oh I have something wonderful planned the next time she calls my grandparents' house. When she calls, my grandmom will hang up and I get to call my cousin. It'll be glorious

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You or your grandparts need to have a talk with your cousin, if that doesnt work, cut off ties, there's not much to do in a situation like this. Explain calmly what needs to be done, and the consequences if it's not done. Karma man, karma. Does your cousin know this is essencially killing your grandfather?

Hate is never the answer to problems. Two wrongs never make a right. Screaming and cussing your cousin out will destroy everything without giving it a chance, and most likely make your grandparents feel worse about not being able to aid there grandchild.

Let me quote the mighty Yoda

Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering.

Nothing will change, everything that happens is destined to. Just let it be and try not to bother yourself with it.

Stop being fatalistic, that doesnt help anything and corrupts everyones view point.

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Let me quote the mighty Yoda

Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering.

Stop being fatalistic, that doesnt help anything and corrupts everyones view point.

You know, you're right. Thank you for that. Also, le quote of yoda was tops.

Alundra was just a dick about it. Good thing you don't take after him.

Also, considering needLEEr's age, he only knows how to go about things in a childish way. Cussing her out or getting even isn't the answer.

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*shrugs* if you honestly believe and strive for things to turn out fine, then they will

i dont believe in fate xD

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i think you just need to sit down with her and tell her how harmful and hurtful she's being in your family. since her mom is in jail she's probably going through a lot of pain herself which will make her less able to adapt and stop doing whatever she's doing wrong.

how old is she? if she doesn't get it, or she doesn't think she's doing anything wrong, and she can support herself, tell her to gtfo. if not, it's a lot harder, but just try to impress upon her that she can't keep behaving the way she is.

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Saying that you should just let your family go deeper into depression even though you can possibly do something about it makes you sound like a selfish, self-absorbed piece of shit.

uhm, its kitoshi.

just be like, you do realize that this is their house? stop being a stupid 'tard just because lifes hard for you know and your not making it any better for anyone else.

or just do what john mclane would do and drop an suv on her after she falls down an elevator shaft.

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my cousin is 16 or something, idc, but there is no talking to her, my grandfather is having a major heart test done today so...

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