DreamerGirl Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 Ok, so this guy Steve at work, right? He seems to like me.... Well, maybe that's a long story but anywhoo- I heard today from two girls I kinda trust. (Well, get stoned with) that he's apparently this big player, and even scammed one of those girls sister's out of six grand so he could buy a car. Now, he's refusing to pay or talk to her. Well, ever since we met he's been really paranoid about rumors that go around at work. Like, seriously hurt by them. I would understand why if this is it and it's not true, but some of you know my luck and I'm debating confronting him or just ignoring him. It'd be really sad if it's just romurs though, because the same happened to me. (I was sleeping with Patrick one week and a lesbian the next, so it's not like it doesn't happen A LOT at that place.) Thoughts? (And I'm kinda high so if this makes no sense I'll edit it unless I realize how dumb this is to post here and attempt to delete all of it. We'll see.) Thanks! Link to comment
DreamerGirl Posted July 28, 2007 Author Share Posted July 28, 2007 Calm down and slowly back away, then re-evaluate all of it. If he is a big player, stay away from him, if he isn't, big deal. These girls that you simply get stoned with can't be trusted, you should just talk to him about it and see if you feel that he's being sincere. I mean, I don't know who would make up a story about some dude stealing 6 grand from an ex.... but it's worth checking out. Work relationships suck, anyway. He might be leaving for a better job that pays a lot more though. He had an interview yesterday. I know this girls sister and mom though, and they don't seem like the type to lie. That's the only thing that worries me. Otherwise, to be honest I felt like I could trust him. So yeah, must confront him. It will be hard, but chances are I'll be feeling powerful. XD Link to comment
Gundampilotspaz Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 He might be leaving for a better job that pays a lot more though. He had an interview yesterday. I know this girls sister and mom though, and they don't seem like the type to lie. That's the only thing that worries me. Otherwise, to be honest I felt like I could trust him. Well, the thing about men who manipulate women is... they KNOW how to manipulate women. Tread lightly and I hope it turns out for the best Link to comment
DreamerGirl Posted July 28, 2007 Author Share Posted July 28, 2007 Well, the thing about men who manipulate women is... they KNOW how to manipulate women. Tread lightly and I hope it turns out for the best You see, that was the safest thing with Tony. I knew him for so long that if he tried to manipulate me I could usually call him on it. Might let him win anyways, but he knew he didn't win because of him manipulating me. Heck, he kinda learned some of it from me. (Like the guilt trips, totally mine first. Accidently, but yeah mine.) Link to comment
Gundampilotspaz Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 You see, that was the safest thing with Tony. I knew him for so long that if he tried to manipulate me I could usually call him on it. Might let him win anyways, but he knew he didn't win because of him manipulating me. Heck, he kinda learned some of it from me. (Like the guilt trips, totally mine first. Accidently, but yeah mine.) Woman should always do the manipulating, being the smarter of the two sexes. Link to comment
DreamerGirl Posted July 28, 2007 Author Share Posted July 28, 2007 Woman should always do the manipulating, being the smarter of the two sexes. LOL. :laugh: Link to comment
Gundampilotspaz Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 LOL. It's probably just me though, since when I see boobs I become a zombie. I zombie that lusts for boobs. Booooooooooobs Link to comment
DreamerGirl Posted July 28, 2007 Author Share Posted July 28, 2007 I'm going to be stressed all weekend now. :( Well, starting tomorrow most likely. XD I'm so glad I was high when I heard this. XD Otherwise I might be really upset. Link to comment
amy Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 i would trust him but be really careful with your money. =P Link to comment
DreamerGirl Posted July 28, 2007 Author Share Posted July 28, 2007 i would trust him but be really careful with your money. =P I have none to offer. XD And he knows this. @.@ Link to comment
DreamerGirl Posted July 28, 2007 Author Share Posted July 28, 2007 It's really weird though how all along he's been warning me not to talk to him because there will be rumors and it's awful, blah blah blah unless he was thinking ahead and figured I'd find out. I'm not really sure. >_< Gah! I hate this! And I won't see him until Wednesday to confront him. Link to comment
amy Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 does he seem like a stable/smooth guy? if he's not, i can easily see people getting "big player" out of a few really awkward relationships/personal difficulties Link to comment
DreamerGirl Posted July 28, 2007 Author Share Posted July 28, 2007 does he seem like a stable/smooth guy? if he's not, i can easily see people getting "big player" out of a few really awkward relationships/personal difficulties He was engaged, but she apparently ended it because she wasn't really to "grow up." She was younger than him. At least that's what he told me. I believed him at the time. Said she was really mean with how she went about it.... Link to comment
Natsu Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 Woman should always do the manipulating, being the smarter of the two sexes. ?? keep away from the guy.. and if he hurts you..I'll rip him from his ass to his appetite. Link to comment
DreamerGirl Posted July 28, 2007 Author Share Posted July 28, 2007 I think I might just give him a chance to explain. After all, I've been the victim of rumors too. And he never lied about them. I mean he's been warning me. That might mean something, or he's just that damn good. Link to comment
Natsu Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 ??? then why ask for advice then.. Link to comment
DreamerGirl Posted July 28, 2007 Author Share Posted July 28, 2007 Because I'm getting many different responses. Not everyone is going OMG HE'S EVIL so it's an ok sign. Link to comment
Anime Gee Posted August 2, 2007 Share Posted August 2, 2007 The Anime Gee & Mr. Jones suggest you to stay away or view from a distance. Sounds like this guy's a bad idea... ('o' ) !! Link to comment
The Lone Magician Posted August 2, 2007 Share Posted August 2, 2007 Dreamer, Erik suggests that you buy a pod racer. In this way, you can be sure that he won't want your money, while racing to earn said money back in the pod races. Link to comment
GummyBearOfDoom Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 and even scammed one of those girls sister's out of six grand so he could buy a car. Now, he's refusing to pay or talk to her. If that person is that dumb to give out that much money TO ANYONE then it deserves to be stolen. That said I really wouldn't believe it. Link to comment
DreamerGirl Posted August 4, 2007 Author Share Posted August 4, 2007 If that person is that dumb to give out that much money TO ANYONE then it deserves to be stolen. That said I really wouldn't believe it. I wouldn't either, but I found out from the girls sister and mother, and we get along pretty well. They both admit she's an idiot too. I know I said I was going to confront him, but I've just been avoiding him. ^^;; He did go find me today, but just to pretend to squirt me with a spray bottle. (Long story.) So, I didn't really have to talk much. *Pretended to be busy* ^^;; Link to comment
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