Ceraziefish Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 EDIT: Never mind. Ugh. I'll try to post a simplified version later, this one was too personal. Link to comment
Tanni Foemangler Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 you better settle down, kay Link to comment
Ceraziefish Posted October 28, 2007 Author Share Posted October 28, 2007 Sorry. I had a giant post but, as I said, it was way too personal. I'm trying to get me some advice. Basically, two of my friends have a crush on this girl. One of them is this girl's ex. This girl has a crush on me, and I am very good friends with her. What the hell do I do, now? I would thoroughly enjoy being with her, but not at the cost of losing friends... It's annoying, and very hard to know what to do. Link to comment
Anime Gee Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 Friendz over bithcez. That's my take on it. ( ^o^) <3 Link to comment
GummyBearOfDoom Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 Don't fuck your friends over. Link to comment
Natsu Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 this shit is Bananas B-A-N-A-N-A-S Link to comment
Satan Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 this shit is Bananas B-A-N-A-N-A-S damn you, this is what I came here to say. anyway, here's my two cents. If you don't want to lose your firends, don't. If you think you can stay friends with her or work something out without losing your firends, good, but if you don't want to lose your frineds over her, don't. Link to comment
Ceraziefish Posted October 28, 2007 Author Share Posted October 28, 2007 The thing is, I'm pretty sure both of them would screw me over for the chance to be with her. EDIT: One of them, anyway. And it's not like she's not an important friend to me, anyway. Link to comment
noodle Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 that is the WORST position to be in. ultimately though, it will just define who you are. someone who is true to your friends, or to your own desire. it would be nice if they would be okay with you and her together odds are though that they will just end up secretly resenting you for it. Link to comment
Ceraziefish Posted October 28, 2007 Author Share Posted October 28, 2007 it would be nice if they would be okay with you and her together odds are though that they will just end up secretly resenting you for it. Yeah, man... Who knows. I don't really believe in "fate" but this girl and I have really hit it off and we both enjoy spending time together a lot. Geh... It's not so much that I even really want to be with her (though I do), it's more that I really don't want anyone else to be with her. Who knows. Now I'm just making myself sound like an asshole. Man, she's hot, though. Link to comment
Anime Gee Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 Just tap that ass & tell her get lost after you're done & call it day! (^o^ ) <3 Link to comment
Satan Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 so they'd fuck you over, but you still want to put friendhip with them before being with her? Link to comment
Artie Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 Don't fuck your friends over. This is also my advice. Just tap that ass & tell her get lost after you're done & call it day! (^o^ ) <3 :awesome: Link to comment
winterlong Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 Okay. Don't listen to anyone who says to not fuck your friends over. You said right up there that you are very good friends with her. She's your friend, too. Don't fuck her over either. I don't know if I have any advice that would help, because people are petty, and someone's not going to be pleased. I've been in a spot where there was some weird threesome weirdo thing going on with three people that I knew, and I flat out said, as soon as I saw where it was going, that no matter what happened, I wasn't choosing sides, as I was friends with each of them. So maybe that would be the first thing to do, if they are all aware of the dilemma that is potentially unfolding. Just say that you aren't getting involved, and then don't get involved. Link to comment
Dramatic Conclusion Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 Friends come and go. I say go for it. :P Link to comment
GummyBearOfDoom Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 Friends come and go. I say go for it. :P What friends do you have? Link to comment
Ceraziefish Posted October 28, 2007 Author Share Posted October 28, 2007 Have an orgy. A one-woman orgy? No thanks. Link to comment
noodle Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 A one-woman orgy? No thanks. well you do have long hair.... just use a little Link to comment
Ceraziefish Posted October 28, 2007 Author Share Posted October 28, 2007 Using a little gayness will not help it be less gay. Link to comment
noodle Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 Using a little gayness will not help it be less gay. then use so much gay that it loops back around to straight ...that is how it works right? RIGHT? ps-sorry to derail your thread Link to comment
margot Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 oh oh, she's a rejector can't protect myself. Link to comment
Belial Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 Dude, I did some Facebook turbo-stalking and I think you're going to be fine. If those dudes are worth having as friends they should understand. Anyway, it's college and sometimes you've got to be a little selfish. Link to comment
DreamerGirl Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 I'm going to be blunt. There's a high chance doing anything might mess up your friendships. Sometimes though, the friends aren't really close friends and it's worth it. Link to comment
Ceraziefish Posted October 28, 2007 Author Share Posted October 28, 2007 Dude, I did some Facebook turbo-stalking and I think you're going to be fine. If those dudes are worth having as friends they should understand. Anyway, it's college and sometimes you've got to be a little selfish. Facebook turbo-stalking? XD What did you do? Link to comment
Silver Cyclone Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 Simply talk it over with your friends. I mean if they say no after explaining she is interested in you too. They can really only wish you there best if they are infact your friends. By telling them and if they act all bitchy and still go after her then they're just been rather hypocritical wankers. I suggest you mention it to your friends. And see what happens. Link to comment
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